A Total Eclipse of the Heart
We couldn't let the recent solar eclipse go by without referencing our favorite 80's song... cue Bonnie Tyler...
Your spouse's heart is meant to shine bright and radiate goodness but often times we cast a shadow and darken our marriage with our reactions and behaviors.
3 ways to Totally Eclipse Your Spouse's Heart
1. DEFEND
We make great defense attorneys for our own actions but are professional prosecutors when in comes to our spouse's behaviors. When your spouse points out something you've done to upset them, try seeing their point before defending yours.
2. DISMISS
Dismissive behavior takes on many forms from interrupting to downright ignoring your spouse when they are sharing their thoughts. Nothing says, "You don't matter" quite like dismissing so, if you want to get kissin' ...don't be dismissin' !
3. DISGUST
It's tempting to want to throw a good eye roll, sharp sarcastic remark followed up with some silent treatment toward your spouse after a long, stressful day with work and kids...but remember...even though it feels good, doesn't mean it is good. Don't let short term emotions create long term damage.
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